Friday, October 19, 2012

Black on Black Love

So! I was reading an article from Bossip about Black men who were never seen with a Black woman. Then I see a picture of Tiger Woods and his ex-wife.
Then I read the comments and saw this: As a white man, this topic always bothers me, because it really seems racist for black women to "demand" that black men should date black women. I say, what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander -- y'all black ladies should find yourselves a good white man and say to hell with the rest!
I couldn't agree with him more!
What is the big deal?! Is there that much of a difference in culture that people should just "stick with their own kind"? Or is it the thought process of the Black man who dates outside his race? True love has nothing to do with race or color but I have heard some disturbing comments from Black men like, "Black girls always got a attitude!!"
I'm like "well damn what woman doesn't have an attitude?" Whether its positive or negative it's still an attitude!
As a woman I can admit- we are allll catty Lol...some people just handle things a little differently than others. Sometimes it is a cultural thing but that doesn't mean one should generalize a woman's attitude based on her race. You can miss out on the love of your life thinking that way!
And women-Black women to be exact Lol, get over yourselves! If he doesn't want you due to his delusional ideas about Black woman, then he isn't for you anyway! And if you ask me he has an even deeper issue within himself.

Thursday, October 18, 2012

About "No Boys Allowed"

If you see something on this page that says "No Boys Allowed", you're on the right page. My blog will primarily discuss views of women in every aspect and walk of life. This is not a male-bashing page or lesbian page. I created this in hopes that all different types of women anywhere and everywhere come somewhere they can all relate to, gain support, encouragement, advice, resources, and learn new and different ways to embrace their womanhood.
Just because it Says "No Boys Allowed", doesn't mean Men aren't allowed to come in and bring something to the table (which may be beneficial to us) or gain something from us that may give them insight on a thought or situation they need clarity on.
This blog will also reach out to young girls transitioning into young adulthood. Or the new mother who needs guidance. Or the woman who seeks relationship advice. Or the woman who wants to start a business. Or the woman who needs a prayer. We gon' pray for you men too! Lol
The views coming from our women will help someone somewhere.
Just remember! No BOYS Allowed! Lol